
Rubi Javed Shaikh
Rubi Javed Shaikh is 31, married, and raising three children, two sons aged 12 and 8, and a 3-year-old daughter. Her husband has limited formal education and controls much of the household's finances. Over time, the situation at home
turned into ongoing domestic violence, and things eventually got bad enough that Rubi had to leave her job and move to a new locality just to get some distance from it.
Through all of this, she kept her SIP going. She's been with AAF for six months now, and for three of them, she hasn't missed a single contribution. Every month she gets ₹1,500 through the Ladli Behen scheme, and out of that, ₹500 quietly goes into her SIP. Her husband doesn't know.
There was one month where he took her entire salary. She didn't fight him on it. But the next time her ₹3,000 salary came in, and it turned out to be her last one before she left the job, she made sure it didn't happen again. She put the whole amount into gold.
It's easy to look at this and just see the numbers, but that's not really what the
story is. Rubi kept choosing her family's future even when everything around her was falling apart, even when it cost her the job and the home she'd built. She didn't wait for things to get easier or for someone to tell her it was the right time. She just kept going.
There's something worth noting about why the conflict at home escalated the way it did. It doesn't seem to be purely about money. It looks more like her husband struggled with watching her become someone who didn't need his permission anymore, and that discomfort turned into control.
What makes Rubi's case stand out is that she never asked for anyone's approval. She figured out her own way to save, to invest, to protect her children's future, even while she was rebuilding her own life somewhere new. This is exactly the kind of shift AAF hopes to create - not just handing women financial tools, but watching them take real ownership of their lives.
